‘We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit’.¹ How do we find more constructive ways of responding to our clients?

  Edna Murdoch says, ‘Who I am, is how I supervise’ ². She emphasises that beyond all our training and techniques, each of us is a unique human being with our own way of relating to and working with our clients. I wholeheartedly agree. And yet, when I ask myself, ‘Who am I?’, I find the question too abstract. It doesn’t help when I’m reflecting on how...